Hey bloggers!
So this week, I am going to be a bit more personal. After last week’s post, I am going to seem like a hypocrite, but my relationship IS one huge emotional roller coaster this week, so I was right after all. As I speak…or type, my boyfriend and I are fighting. What are we fighting about? I have no idea, you ladies know how males can be sometimes. It’s a rainy day, he just wanted to hang out, watch TV and just talk, like usual. I bet that he will be doing what he usually does—play video games and NOTHING else. I’m going to make myself useful and take advantage of my Friday off by doing my laundry and homework, so what’s wrong with that?
Last week I said, “To be honest, this does not work every day or every week in our relationship but the majority of the time it does and we will make the best of any situation,” and that’s exactly what I’m trying to do. I am trying to communicate and schedule things out with him but he just doesn’t care what I say about anything. Our fight only lasted about two hours, and it wasn’t even a real fight because it was through texting. Why do we all rely on texting so much, and why can’t people just be honest face to face?!
He got mad at me because I wouldn’t come to his house, he always comes to mine. I told him I had homework and laundry to do. He claims I always have an excuse why I won’t come over when honestly I don’t. He knows he would just rather be at my house than his, so why come up with a lie. He’s you know…guy PMSing today and we ladies, just have to deal with it and look cute!
I guess all that I need to do is let this text argument slide and look at the big picture. The big picture here is:
"Love doesn't make the world go round.
Love is what makes the ride worthwhile."
Love is what makes the ride worthwhile."
– Franklin P. Jones
So, is this why I am on that emotional roller coaster lately and specifically in the front row? It seems so! I hope that it changes or I’m getting off this emotional roller coaster soon and going to a new amusement park!
Sincerely yours,
jersey_girl
no matter who you are fighting with, arguing through text msgs are teh WORST. I've been there too...talk about miscommunication. I'm glad to hear everything worked out. I totally agree with your point of view. Just keep on balancing everything and you'll be a-okay! :)
ReplyDeleteUgh, this is what goes on in my life, too. Relationships and school; it is hard to do both school and relationships at the same time. I have a boyfriend, as well, and he is VERY understanding when it comes to my academic responsibilities, fortunately. He understands that school comes first (it might sound harsh, but it is true). Before we started to date, I made sure that he knew school was extremely important to me. Two years later, he still understands. So, if I have homework, I just do it at his house with him so that we can spend time together and I can finish school work.
ReplyDeleteI laughed at your last line: "So, is this why I am on that emotional roller coaster lately and specifically in the front row? It seems so! I hope that it changes or I’m getting off this emotional roller coaster soon and going to a new amusement park!" Before making the choice of going to a new amusement park, speak to him, communicate with him before that happens!! :-)